Boundaries in relationships

A successful relationship is made up of two individuals who know who they are as a person. I have learned  not to loose my uniqueness as a human being in my relationships.  You see, my problem in the past is that I was a "people-pleaser." Being someone who constantly likes to please others  left me resentful and angry in the past. It was not until I learned that I needed to understand myself and my needs in order to be able to communicate them to others. I needed to know myself. I had the need to know what I liked, what I needed, and what I wanted. A healthy relationship requires a clear definition of your own individuality.  I learned to never loose my individuality in a relationship.  I learned to draw boundaries.